CAMDEN — Let me start by saying that I understand how touchy the subject of homosexuality can be, for both homosexuals and heterosexuals. However, as of a recently very heated argument I was involved in, I decided I should touch on the subject and explain my stance.
First off, personally, I believe homosexuals are simply humans with an attraction to the same sex. This doesn’t make them any less human than the rest of us. Now, I’m not a LGBT activist. However, you can’t force your personal ideals on any individual. It’s not our place to judge. Instead, like Jesus, we should come to know and understand through love. I don’t claim to have much knowledge on the LGBT discussion. I feel that all people should be in control of their own lives. That said, the only reason I can’t support homosexual relationships is because I know about the higher amount of domestic abuse, health problems, and mental issues that stems from specifically homosexual relations. That said, for me to say “homosexual relationships are unhealthy” would be the same as me generalizing an entire race or religion based off the decisions of some. That would be unfair, wrong, and judgmental for me to do so.
What I do know is that we all bleed red, we all carry on conversations, and that homosexuals and heterosexuals both stand on the front lines in today’s military. Just because I wouldn’t encourage the gay lifestyle to my son, per say, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t love him the same if he opted to be gay. I say "opted" because I believe homosexuality is a choice. I’ve spoken to several gay friends and had them tell me it was preference. They don’t know why, but same sex is who they’re attracted to. Now, there’s plenty of scientific arguments and experiments that state homosexuality could be something you’re born with - I’ve even had a friend say this is his case. There are also arguments that say it’s a result of life experiences. My conclusion? Let the experts figure it out, and us focus on coming together as a people.
The homosexual suicide rate is ridiculously high, and the reason is because today’s culture often discriminates and bullies those that are different from the norm. You don’t have to ignore your convictions, but if your convictions cause you to attack or hurt another individual, then you need to reevaluate your mindset. How can you be convinced hat homosexuality is wrong, but not verbal abuse towards a human being? Remember, all people are equal and you can’t control anyone. Whether or not you like how someone lives their life shouldn’t effect how you interact with them. You must remember there are people out there who don’t like how you live yours. That said, don’t be afraid to stand for your beliefs, whoever you are. Just make sure you’re doing it in a manner that doesn’t cause harm to others. (Contact Keller with questions, comments, or opinions at 870-836-8192 or [email protected])